The unconventional perspective

Bhekie Bhekie

Musician Tatu Maluba gave quite an unconventional perspective regarding his take on men's mental health.

Truly expecting a discussion on toxic masculinity or societal pressures. Instead, he surprised me with a candid response.

"Women are the axis on which men revolve," he said with conviction. "It is entirely up to women to promote and sustain men's mental health," he added.

I was taken aback, but he continued. 

"I implore all women to be loving and caring, as well as accommodating, as much as they can to ensure men are in great mental shape."

His words however, sparked a mix of emotions within me. While I appreciated his emphasis on the importance of supportive relationships, I couldn't help but wonder if he was placing too much responsibility on women.

After giving it much thought I realized that perhaps he was highlighting the significance of emotional support in men's lives.

Maybe in his view women played a crucial role in helping men open up and prioritize their mental well-being. "Musha mukadzi"

The conversation left me with more questions than answers. 

While I understood his point, I couldn't help but think about the complexities of men's health and the need for a more nuanced approach.

His response does come across as placing the bulk of the responsibility on women, which might not be the most effective or equitable approach to addressing men's mental health